TIME OUT is the most researched, used, and successful discipline technique. Time-out has been used for generations (i.e. go to your room, stand in the corner) and will be used for many generations to come. The method is used to turn negative child behavior (i.e. hitting, biting, defiance) into a positive learning experience. Teaching children to “think before they act” by removing them from playtime and placing them on Take-Out-Time-Out (a recognized “think spot”). Take-Out-Time-Out allows for parents to use a consistent spot anywhere anytime. Parenting experts stress the importance of using a consistent spot. Also, the most effective form of “time-out” is when used as a non emotional and positive method. With a consistent recognized spot, there is no need for talking (which tends to lead to yelling). Simply, place the mat down and point. This allows for the parent, caretaker or teacher to have time to think about what should be discussed in a loving manner with the child after the time-out.
The Star Stash goes hand in hand with Take-Out-Time-Out. Reinforcing good behavior is crucial in building a child's self esteem. The Star Stash is a portable rewards system that teaches children (i.e. manners, respect, potty, chores, introducing foods, excel in sports or school) by reinforcing with positive attention and proving immediate rewards anywhere anytime (i.e. home, school, store, vacation). There is a Star Stash contract that can be displayed for reference and stars can be redeemed for a trip to the zoo, play date or even a dollar amount. The Star Stash also serves as a portable teaching tool that teaches counting in increments of ten, value of a dollar and how to save. The tangible rewards create excitement and also encourages responsibility. The Portable Parenting Package creates the healthy balance for a strong and loving relationship. |
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